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Why We Don’t Need To Make Polygamy A Crime

by admin on February 15, 2010

A man can have sex with as many women as he likes. But he can’t marry more than one. If we don’t have a good reason to discriminate, then we probably shouldn’t.

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But what about the children?

by admin on February 4, 2010

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Should people be free to set up cults, to live undisturbed to practice their religion, to deviate from mainstream ethical codes? Certainly if we believe in freedom, people should be able to do this. In fact, the group was already under a great deal of pressure to reform from the outside and inside, with former members of the group reporting despotic control by the leader and many men who had been excommunicated putting pressure on those inside to leave. We don’t know whether the entire matter – if indeed abuse was taking place – might have been handled in this way, because the state intervened to impose the cruelest possible solution: namely, taking children from their mothers’ arms and putting them in the hands of government social workers.

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The Straight Woman In A Polygamous Marriage

by admin on December 26, 2009

What is in it for the heterosexual woman? Why have I sought out a polygamous relationship with a heterosexual sister wife and a married man?

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Men are designed to chase skirts…

by admin on December 6, 2009

Why are we all so coy about the thought of men having other women in their lives? That’s the way they’re designed. Wouldn’t it be better to accept that the male of the species should be allowed to have several wives? Clinton should have been allowed to marry Monica and enjoy his polygamy.

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Men in the contemporary U.S. and Western Europe aren’t exactly polygynous. It’s not like they have several wives. They divorce and remarry. Or they have wives-and girlfriends on the side. That’s not polygyny. Is it?

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Abolish The Marriage License

by admin on May 29, 2009

Following the California Supreme Court’s decision this week to uphold a ban on gay marriage, the U.S. looks headed into a long, resource-sucking legal slog over whether same-sex couples may marry. Here’s an idea that could end the debate once and for all, and trim government spending to boot: Get government out of the marriage business altogether.

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The Second Wife’s Wedding

by admin on April 5, 2009

The voyeur and keen observer of human nature in me could not resist when I was invited to attend a friend’s wedding in the Eastern Cape.

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The Real Big Controversy

by admin on March 15, 2009

I believe there may be another hidden reason that the show makes Mormons uneasy.

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If The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints had not uttered a single word about this Sunday’s episode of “Big Love,” it wouldn’t have exploded into the hotbed of controversy it has become.

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I Love Big Love! Being a stay at home mom can be so isolating and…

But also I just think it would be cool to be polygamous. At least the way it is portrayed on Big Love. Bill is so decent as played by Bill Paxton. Men like Bill marrying all the single moms and raising the children would solve a lot of cultural and economic problems.

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How Bad Are Our Traditional Practices?

What is more safe to have two or three wives legally than what we are seeing in the West where people are changing partners every month or year?

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Ministers’ Marriage Views Inconsistent with the Bible

Either we must reject one man/one woman because Jesus supported Old Testament Law, or the Bible is an outdated moral code and we must all flock to York and Johnson, who esoterically know how God defines marriage.

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This Day in History: September 24th

The US promotes “the bigger the better” and “the more the merrier.” Why is it when a practice embraces both of these, as well as a well-balanced family dynamic, we dismiss it without a second thought?

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In England, There Are Over 1,000 Laws That Will Let The State Into Your Home!

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The march of the Big Brother state under Labour was highlighted last night as it was revealed that there are now 1,043 laws that give the authorities the power to enter a home or business. Nearly half have been introduced since Labour came to power 11 years ago.

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Senator Reid: Threatening Innocents with his Anti-Polygamy Campaign

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Senator Reid, Victims of Polygamy Assistance Act of 2008, Mormons, Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, FLDS, Yearning for Zion Ranch,

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On Parenting and the Courts

The question being raised by many outside the judicial system is whether the Texas Children’s Protective Agency was protecting children or attempting to prosecute the polygamists.

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Family defends polygamy, calls it a culture of love

While plural marriage is a tenet of her faith, Polly insists it also creates a stable family structure.The family members complain of bigotry and hypocrisy in a nation that treats adultery and divorce as routine yet is repulsed by plural marriages. “America is about polygamy,it’s just that they want to do it one person at a time – serial polygamists. We see marriage differently . . . something that will last forever.”

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HEART BEAT: Sins of Fathers

According to the Catholic Church, my father had something in common with polygamists. Since the sacrament of marriage is insoluble, a person who receives a civil divorce is still married in the eyes of this church. If he weds another woman, as my father did, outside the bonds of Holy Matrimony, he may well end up on his deathbed, as my father did, assured by visitors that he does not deserve forgiveness for his sins because he thought he could marry two different women.

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Does Polygamy Have A Legal Future in the U.S.?

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While the FLDS drama has put polygamy on the front pages, what amazes me most about the issue are polygamists who live “normal” lives — and blog about it.

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They’re coming for your kids!

Whether they are “plural” or single, Wicca or just weird, bohemian or bourgeoisie – parents should take the kids and skedaddle when they hear that phrase “in the best interests of the child.” It is simply a license for the state to substitute its own judgment for that of the parents. Today, it’s polygamist parents – Kool-Aid drinkers is Bill O’Reilly’s favored sobriquet. Tomorrow, it’ll be the offspring of homeschoolers or global warming deniers.

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